First of all, I think you should keep looking around. Before I started dating a couple, I was so confused and often complained why I couldn’t find a couple who is compatible to me as soon as possible. Once a time, I nearly give it up while I am so happy I didn’t make the wrong decision at that period. I came back and I asked myself to have more patience to those couples since I read an article on the 3rder website saying that we need to keep looking around all the time. As a result, I persuaded myself to meet as many couples as I can, through various swingers hookup apps, and then I judged which of them were potential matches based on my preferences. In the end, my hard work paid off when I finally found a couple for a real 3some dating.
When you arrange a three-way dating with a new couple, never mention anything about your last partner, whether they give you a good or bad impression. I found some kinds of couple I didn’t like and I would tell my every partner about this at the beginning of my swing lifestyle. But, I lost a lot of chances to get to know more about my new partner after they said goodbye to me as they thought I will be so picky to them. Everything turned out go in the opposite way as I expected. After I corrected this problem, I was able to gain the trust of many couples and meet each other's needs at the same time.
Pay attention to the questions you want to ask your partners. Since I am always good at talking, I could keep talking with a couple for a long time while I didn’t realize that I made another mistake. I would ask them anything I want to know but I just ignored a fact that they might not willing to answer my questions for some reasons. So, before you meet your partner, it’s best to think about the questions you're going to ask, what to ask and what not to ask. After all, a great threesome relationship means that everyone involved feels comfortable all the time.