Before talking about whether we should make plans, I would like to talk about plans first. There are different degrees of plans. In a threesome, are you going to make plans which are very detailed? For example, what gesture are you going to use? Who is going to go down on who? I think such plan is not necessary. It can really spoil the fun. However, you can talk about when and where are you going to have this threesome hookup. Try not be too detailed.
Now, I am going to elaborate different cases of threesome plan-making. If you are a single, I think at most situations, you are probably going to go with the couple. If they are a couple who are very premeditated, you might be included in the process of plan-making. The advantages of making plans are actually quite obvious. Nothing can go wrong if you stick to the plans. Plans do not definitely lead to a less-fun threesome. It could guarantee a promising threesome instead.
If you are a couple, I think it is necessary to plan to bit. After all, you are in a relationship and threesome can be both good or bad to your relationship. If it goes well, threesome can spice up and strengthen your relationship. If it goes bad, it can damage your relationship. Therefore, to make sure your relationship will be safe after the threesome, you can plan a bit beforehand. Just like I mentioned above, do not plan too much. You can just talk about the major topics, such as is there going to be penetration between the boyfriend and the third girl, is it okay if the boyfriend does oral to the third girl and other issues like these. In other words, you should talk about boundaries or things that are not acceptable for each other for the sake of your relationship.
That is what I would like to offer for swinger couples and singles who are looking for a threesome hookup. I hope you have a satisfactory threesome without anyone gets hurt.