Hello there! Single transgender men and transgender women who aspire to change their social life desperately. Is everything working out? If yes, thanks to the powerful transgender dating apps where gathers hundreds of thousands of single like minded transgenders. However, if your dating life is not going on so well, blame it to the Mr. Insensitive or Mr. Inexperienced you have dated. Don’t worry, none of it has anything to do with whom you are, but the way they define you. It is not that the scitrangenders you have dated didn’t mean well, but they are rick their chances of successfully dating a transgender girl or transgender guy by being ignorant. Thus if you are going to or are dating a transgender currently, read the following rules which will be of great hello for you.
Calling them trannies? No!
Note that “Tranny” is an offensive nickname for LGBT community. Maybe you find it fun or interesting to call it now and then, but don’t do it in a civilized conversation because your t girls or t guys will certainly find it rude!
Treat the with respect like you would give to any others.
There are times when I, a transgender women who is constantly on trans dating apps, men come to me over sweetly. They ask my name, my interest and buy my drinks. For a moment I thought it is because I am special. However, within a blink of an eye that my identity get revealed, they don’t seem to be interested in myself anymore. The questions soon change to “So is it true that transgender are extremely sexual in bed?” or “How exactly do you do in bed with your partner?”, which is not only frustrating, humiliating as well as degrading. So what made you think that it is OK for you to ask questions like this to me instead of other “normal girls” as you would define? Simply because I am a transgender myself? If that is the case, please leave me alone because I only talk to people who respect us.
We are not experts about transgenders.
One or two questions would be fine. However, if there a millions of questions regarding transgender dating issues, we would totally want you to shut up. What makes you think that dating a transgender women or transgender men gives you all the right to bother us with trans issue related questions? Keep in mind that it has nothing to do with who we are. Thus if you can’t satisfy your curiosity, educate yourself instead of thinking everyone of us is a transgender professor. Paying a brief visit to GOOGLE will be a much better choice.
It is not easy dating a transgender, no matter your ts date is ladyboy, shemale, crossdressing men or tomboy. Thus all you need is patience, love as well as support to make this relationship work.